beyond the listings: how death, divorce, and disillusionment shape the airbnb landscape

welcome to the cashflow diary daily. This edition of the newsletter, titled

"Beyond the Listings: How Death, Divorce, and Disillusionment Shape the

Airbnb Landscape," we will delve into some deeply personal experiences and

explore how they have shaped my perspective on life and the Airbnb business.

This newsletter serves as both a confession and a form of therapy; hoping to

provide support and encouragement to others who may be experiencing

similar situations.

in this issue…

• sharing personal experiences to offer support and inspire growth

• reflecting on overcoming abuse and family norms in an 18-year marriage

• discovering the healing power of solitude in a short-term rental

• processing the grief and loss after a miscarriage of twins

• tackling workplace deceit with humor and candor to overcome challenges

• remembering a grandmother and the importance of supportive figures

• highlighting valuable resources for men experiencing violence and abuse

• acknowledging the transformative power of pain and finding the good in adversity

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the impact of an 18-year marriage and divorce, overcoming abuse and family norms

The 18-year marriage I endured was often filled with abuse that sometimes felt

normalized upon reflecting on my family of origin. It's important to recognize

that revisiting past pains can help the scared and abandoned child within us

heal and find peace. While I don't blame anyone for what happened, I

understand now that some of our frames of reference can be off, and it's

crucial to reevaluate them as we grow and heal.

finding peace and healing in a short-term rental

Staying at a student's short-term rental allowed me to escape the constant

state of hypervigilance I had been living in for years. In the quiet solitude of this

rental, I realized the extent of my pain. It's amazing how something so different

and peaceful can make the silence feel loud, offering a chance to heal truly.

coping with the miscarriage of twins

The experience of losing twins (I’m remarried) through miscarriage was a

heart-wrenching event that brought immense grief. It's a pain that one can only

truly understand when they have gone through it themselves. This experience

has taught me the importance of compassion and empathy and the strength of

resilience in the face of such adversity.

dealing with deceit in the workplace with candor and humor

Deceit in the workplace can be a painful and frustrating experience. However,

addressing it with honesty and humor can help alleviate some of its negative

emotions. While I won't go into specific details to protect the guilty, it's

important to remember that we can learn from these experiences and grow

stronger as individuals and professionals.

grieving the loss of a grandmother and the importance of support

My grandmother's passing marked the loss of the third person in my family

who had supported my journey to become something more than an employee.

It's essential to acknowledge these supportive figures' impact on our lives and

to cherish the memories we shared with them.

resources and support for men experiencing violence

For those who may be going through similar experiences of violence and

abuse, resources are available to help. One such resource is 1in6.org, which

offers support specifically for men. Additionally, the National Domestic

Violence Hotline (thehotline.org) and HelpGuide (helpguide.org) are two

other valuable resources that provide assistance for anyone experiencing

violence or abuse.

the transformative power of pain and the belief in good

Despite the pain and challenges I have faced, I believe that what some intend

for evil, God intends for good. This newsletter is a testament to the

transformative power of pain and the belief that our experiences, no matter

how difficult, can lead us to a better place. My hope is that by sharing my

journey, I can provide encouragement and hope for others facing similar

challenges.

Your short-term rental endeavors make a difference even if you don’t get to

hear the story.

Thank you for letting me know.

i’m so glad these first 4 months of the year are over…

J. Massey