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beyond the listings: how death, divorce, and disillusionment shape the airbnb landscape
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welcome to the cashflow diary daily. This edition of the newsletter, titled
"Beyond the Listings: How Death, Divorce, and Disillusionment Shape the
Airbnb Landscape," we will delve into some deeply personal experiences and
explore how they have shaped my perspective on life and the Airbnb business.
This newsletter serves as both a confession and a form of therapy; hoping to
provide support and encouragement to others who may be experiencing
similar situations.
in this issue…
sharing personal experiences to offer support and inspire growth
reflecting on overcoming abuse and family norms in an 18-year marriage
discovering the healing power of solitude in a short-term rental
processing the grief and loss after a miscarriage of twins
tackling workplace deceit with humor and candor to overcome challenges
remembering a grandmother and the importance of supportive figures
highlighting valuable resources for men experiencing violence and abuse
acknowledging the transformative power of pain and finding the good in adversity
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the impact of an 18-year marriage and divorce, overcoming abuse and family norms
The 18-year marriage I endured was often filled with abuse that sometimes felt
normalized upon reflecting on my family of origin. It's important to recognize
that revisiting past pains can help the scared and abandoned child within us
heal and find peace. While I don't blame anyone for what happened, I
understand now that some of our frames of reference can be off, and it's
crucial to reevaluate them as we grow and heal.
finding peace and healing in a short-term rental
Staying at a student's short-term rental allowed me to escape the constant
state of hypervigilance I had been living in for years. In the quiet solitude of this
rental, I realized the extent of my pain. It's amazing how something so different
and peaceful can make the silence feel loud, offering a chance to heal truly.
coping with the miscarriage of twins
The experience of losing twins (I’m remarried) through miscarriage was a
heart-wrenching event that brought immense grief. It's a pain that one can only
truly understand when they have gone through it themselves. This experience
has taught me the importance of compassion and empathy and the strength of
resilience in the face of such adversity.
dealing with deceit in the workplace with candor and humor
Deceit in the workplace can be a painful and frustrating experience. However,
addressing it with honesty and humor can help alleviate some of its negative
emotions. While I won't go into specific details to protect the guilty, it's
important to remember that we can learn from these experiences and grow
stronger as individuals and professionals.
grieving the loss of a grandmother and the importance of support
My grandmother's passing marked the loss of the third person in my family
who had supported my journey to become something more than an employee.
It's essential to acknowledge these supportive figures' impact on our lives and
to cherish the memories we shared with them.
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resources and support for men experiencing violence
For those who may be going through similar experiences of violence and
abuse, resources are available to help. One such resource is 1in6.org, which
offers support specifically for men. Additionally, the National Domestic
Violence Hotline (thehotline.org) and HelpGuide (helpguide.org) are two
other valuable resources that provide assistance for anyone experiencing
violence or abuse.
the transformative power of pain and the belief in good
Despite the pain and challenges I have faced, I believe that what some intend
for evil, God intends for good. This newsletter is a testament to the
transformative power of pain and the belief that our experiences, no matter
how difficult, can lead us to a better place. My hope is that by sharing my
journey, I can provide encouragement and hope for others facing similar
challenges.
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i’m so glad these first 4 months of the year are over…
J. Massey
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